Relationship Honesty: What You Need To Know

This week I had the honour of being one of the speakers at a very powerful event hosted by Jo Wilson and Andy Coley of Beyond NLP Training.

Relationship Honesty is a very loaded term, and emotions could have easily ran high and the event been a disaster if it was not for 4 key factors.

1) The masterful way in which Jo and Andy provided a safe space for participants to explore the topic.

2) The care, authenticity and vulnerability displayed by the speakers. It was the first time I had witnessed Vincent Clohessey in action, yet his style left a profound mark.

3) The staff at Crisis Cafe took good care of us.

4) The audiences participation to tackle the subject wholeheartedly.


I delivered a free flowing presentation, sprinkled with some games and practical tools that participants could take into their relationships to make a powerful impact.  You can download the talk notes below.  Here are some of the things that I covered

• Honesty V Disclosure
• The 2 Key Distinctions
• Relationship Structures: Doing what's right for you
• 4 Keys of Relating
• Sex: Know Thy Self
• Normative Myths

I'd be interested to know what are your thoughts on relationship honesty. Leave a comment below.
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